Help with low sex drive in women

[irishpride]

i have had two clients recently ask me about things they can take to increase there sex drive..one of them is a woman in her mid 30s or so and the other is 25...they are looking for something over the counter pretty much so anytype of gear or anything is out of the question nor would i allow them to take such things just for that sole benefit..the older woman wants something that will keep her drive high all the time so a long term regime of supps would be best..were as the younger one just wants something to use on a as needed basis, like when her boyfreind is in the mood..she doesnt want to feel ultra horny all the time like the other woman..i am not really sure what to advice them on so i figure some of the women here may have ideas..thanks in advance

[irishpride]

and for the record from what i understand they are both 100% healthy and have no medical causes for the lack of desire..with the younger female it comes and goes but her mate (whom she is very attracted too) has a much higher sex drive (he is a aas user and competitve athelete) and she wants to feel the passion when they go at it even when she isnt fully in the mood to make it more enjoyable for both her and her mate..the older woman just wants to feel sexually aroused more often..they are both attractive and dont have selfesteem issues.. it seems that they both have been like this most of there lives..again thanks for any help

[Admiral Johnson]

subbed for the answers

[tight booty]

Tribulus. Its a herb and is completely safe and easy to get. I think Budthebuilder wrote a thread on it here in this forum. Check it out.

[Quadsweep]

Don't know about OTC stuff but the 25yo should go to hey Gyno. They have a topical Testosterone cream she rubs on her...."man in the boat" prior to sex....I do not even know how I know that!

Quad

[irishpride]

bumpin for more female opinions please

[sassy69]

Do they know their natural test levels? Have they talked to the OB/GYN?

[irishpride]

Do they know their natural test levels? Have they talked to the OB/GYN?
from the info i gathered the are in the lower to normal range test wise and really are just looking for a boost.

[Tatyana]

I know that women on cycle have higher sex drives, however, the last time I checked in the medical literature, there was no evidence that testosterone increased a woman's sex drive when they were experiencing a low or lower libido.

Oddly enough, there were as many women who were taking a placebo and thought it might be testosterone experienced an increase in sex drive as those who actually got testosterone, and I think the percentage of women that it worked on was quite low.

I will see if I can dig out the review paper, it was a fairly large study if I remember correctly.

Our sex drive is far more complicated, different things seem to get women excited.


It may be adviseable to have some blood work done, but I would also check other parameters like glucose, thyroid function, LH/FSH and the female sex hormones as well as testosterone isn't always the answer for most women.

There are people who have higher sex drives, some who have a lower sex drive, and there isn't anything wrong with that.

Sometimes women may have to just get on with it and do it for the greater good, they may find that just having sex and focusing on the sensations in their bodies, rather than thinking 'I'm not in the mood' may shift the entire experience.

[Sistersteel]

Tribulus is a great natural test booster and Quadsweep's recommendation for topical testosterone cream actually does work but is not without side effects.

Believe it or not, the supplement they have been advertising on TV actually does work. Get a week's free supply and try it out. Its an all natural herbal blend to increase a woman's libido.

http://www.extenzewomen.com/page/index

[Carolyn Bryant]

You need to bottle up yourself. That'll get a mofo perky. I'm excited just looking at that avatar

[NubianBeauty]

You need to bottle up yourself. That'll get a mofo perky. I'm excited just looking at that avatar:yep:

[Sistersteel]

You need to bottle up yourself. That'll get a mofo perky. I'm excited just looking at that avatar


I got one hand covering one tittie and a whip tail covering the other one. I might as well be wearing a bra. Just admit it, you want me.

[tight booty]

It's a known fact that sexy images raise a persons natural test. Thank you Sistersteel....;)

[Sistersteel]

It's a known fact that sexy images raise a persons natural test. Thank you Sistersteel....;)


Anytime Darling ;)

[Carolyn Bryant]

I got one hand covering one tittie and a whip tail covering the other one. I might as well be wearing a bra. Just admit it, you want me.

Gurl, you make me wanna do some freaky thangs to ya.. keep wearing that sexy shyt up in her.....

[Sistersteel]

Gurl, you make me wanna do some freaky thangs to ya.. keep wearing that sexy shyt up in her.....


I think I'll wear nothing at all...how ya like me naw?

[Carolyn Bryant]

Nuttn like some regular vitamin "D" to increase the drive and the desire. Find you a mofo who knows how to slang that thang..... it will change your whole life, or flcuk up your whole life if you're not careful...You'll be looking for him in broad daylight with a flashlight. LOL

Guys, find you a girl who likes to roam the house with sexy shyt like Ms. Dangerous is wearing, a chunky monkey and some skills...you'll get a hard-on just thinking about what's gonna happen...

[Carolyn Bryant]

I think I'll wear nothing at all...how ya like me naw?

You better not show your naked ass on this board. Imma take that whip and use it on you.

[Sistersteel]

You better not show your naked ass on this board. Imma take that whip and use it on you.

Is that all you're gonna do to me? I'm disappointed.

[tight booty]

Did I hear a wax pot brewing? :p
I am not getting left out! ;)

[The Big Sexy]

Hey - I don't want to get banned or get an infraction, but I've always felt that libido was libido... regardless of what you take or don't take. Granted, it can get a boost - but as for a fall - I think it is hugely mental thing.

Donald Trump once said you don't need Viagra if you have a hot woman. I don't think a woman needs any help on "that end" if her guy is treating her right, arousing her in the method she wants to be, and knows how to push her buttons... softly and with force when required.

Just sayin'... TBS... 2009... I'm out.

[Sistersteel]

did i hear a wax pot brewing? :p
i am not getting left out! ;)

never!

[Sistersteel]

Hey - I don't want to get banned or get an infraction, but I've always felt that libido was libido... regardless of what you take or don't take. Granted, it can get a boost - but as for a fall - I think it is hugely mental thing.

Donald Trump once said you don't need Viagra if you have a hot woman. I don't think a woman needs any help on "that end" if her guy is treating her right, arousing her in the method she wants to be, and knows how to push her buttons... softly and with force when required.

Just sayin'... TBS... 2009... I'm out.

TBS that is not a very accurate assumption there. A woman's libido is highly dependent on a number of factors completely independent of how colorful her sex life is. You are looking at things from a man's perspective, hence your use of Donald Trump's words as an example. A woman's libido is affected by stress, fatigue, hormones, prescription meds, psychological disturbances that could be attributed to relationship, family, finances..etc. all of which play a very important role in lowering a woman's libido. She could be fucking Casanova.

SS

[The Big Sexy]

TBS that is not a very accurate assumption there. A woman's libido is highly dependent on a number of factors completely independent of how colorful her sex life is. You are looking at things from a man's perspective, hence your use of Donald Trump's words as an example. A woman's libido is affected by stress, fatigue, hormones, prescription meds, psychological disturbances that could be attributed to relationship, family, finances..etc. all of which play a very important role.

SS

I'll give you that... I guess... Then again, I've dated several women in the industry - and each have had these issues in the past with their previous relationships... I think, part of the problem was, their boyfriends were thinking like "men" as well. Trying to get in and heat things up, without taking the time to really get her going...

Granted, I don't think I've ever been with someone who was so psychologically messed up they couldn't operate in the real world... so, I don't know how THAT would affect their sex life...

However, I have learned that women aren't like microwave ovens all of the time - many... take a while to heat up... even when they aren't in the mood... you can get them in the mood, with the right touch, feel, or knowing them as a person.

[tight booty]

Very true SisterSteel. I recall not being interested in sex after giving birth. Definitely hormonal. And then when my hormones began to return to normal, I must have had a big surge in them because I was having wet dreams every night.
Also a few weeks out before a comp I lose interest in sex. Then when I have finished competing and gained back some bodyfat I get a huge increase in sex drive and have masturbated up to 8 times a day and have sex on the brain 24/7.

[Sistersteel]

I'll give you that... I guess... Then again, I've dated several women in the industry - and each have had these issues in the past with their previous relationships... I think, part of the problem was, their boyfriends were thinking like "men" as well. Trying to get in and heat things up, without taking the time to really get her going...

Granted, I don't think I've ever been with someone who was so psychologically messed up they couldn't operate in the real world... so, I don't know how THAT would affect their sex life...

However, I have learned that women aren't like microwave ovens all of the time - many... take a while to heat up... even when they aren't in the mood... you can get them in the mood, with the right touch, feel, or knowing them as a person.


You are using women in the industry as an example. More than 80% of women "in the industry" are chemically enhanced. For your information, the natural testosterone production in a female athlete engaged in any form of athletic performance, increases, on average by 49% as opposed to a measly 15% increase in their male counterparts. So its no wonder you have not encountered these troubles in your sexcapades. And if the ladies you have encountered have had issues in their past relationships that were attributed to sexual neglect, or lack of forplay, then your personal experiences are certainly not a good example to base a generalization upon.

I am sorry you regard women with hormonal imbalances, or social and emotional disturbances as " so psychologically messed up they couldn't operate in the real world ". A woman serves far more purpose in this world than a good fuck. Some compassion from a caring gentleman would be nice.

SS

[The Big Sexy]

You are using women in the industry as an example. More than 80% of women "in the industry" are chemically enhanced. For your information, the natural testosterone production in a female athlete engaged in any form of athletic performance, increases, on average by 49% as opposed to a measly 15% increase in their male counterparts. So its no wonder you have not encountered these troubles in your sexcapades. And if the ladies you have encountered have had issues in their past relationships that were attributed to sexual neglect, or lack of forplay, then that is certainly not a good example to make a generalization such as yours.

I am sorry you regard women with hormonal imbalances, social, emotional, or hormonal disturbances as " so psychologically messed up they couldn't operate in the real world ". A woman serves far more purpose in this world than a good fuck. Some compassion from caring gentleman would be nice.

SS

Hey... whoa. Ease up.

First, the women I was speaking of always said they had no sex drive - it is why I used them as an example. Now, if they had extremely high hormonal levels and just weren't into it - that's one thing... but I doubt it was an across the board issue.

Second, that was a very devious read into my post. I do not regard women with these issues in such a manner and definitely do not view women as only good for a fuck... as you say. Perhaps it was my own reading into your post about the conditions you were speaking of - it made it sound as if it were a serious affliction that demanded medical attention.

I will concede that I must not have met any women, in my entire life, who have had psychological issues or otherwise as you have stated, that would inhibit their sexual appetite when they are approached in the correct manner... therefore, I will also concede that my libido is libido argument is invalid as applied to your fact pattern.

[Sistersteel]

Hey... whoa. Ease up.

First, the women I was speaking of always said they had no sex drive - it is why I used them as an example. Now, if they had extremely high hormonal levels and just weren't into it - that's one thing... but I doubt it was an across the board issue.

Then you must be quite the lay, TBS, to stir the loins of women whose sexual urges and appetites were otherwise dormant.


Second, that was a very devious read into my post. I do not regard women with these issues in such a manner and definitely do not view women as only good for a fuck... as you say. Perhaps it was my own reading into your post about the conditions you were speaking of - it made it sound as if it were a serious affliction that demanded medical attention.

Then my apologies for misconstruing what you said.


I will concede that I must not have met any women, in my entire life, who have had psychological issues or otherwise as you have stated, that would inhibit their sexual appetite when they are approached in the correct manner... therefore, I will also concede that my libido is libido argument is invalid as applied to your fact pattern.

That made absolutely no sense. Care to rephrase please?

[The Big Sexy]

Then you must be quite the lay, TBS, to stir the loins of women whose sexual urges and appetites were otherwise dormant.


Then my apologies for misconstruing what you said.



That made absolutely no sense. Care to rephrase please?

I can't do that multi-quote stuff... so I'll just go at it like this...

It isn't my style to boast - unless I'm just putting on a bravado for fun - I would never claim something to the effect that I am "quite the lay" - I would rather say that I have an understanding of women. I know how to touch someone, I have empathy and can sense when something is good or not for someone else. I am good at figuring things out - this includes people... which, would include women. Like you said - it goes much beyond a "simple fuck" ;)

No need to apologize - it may have been I who originally misstated myself.

What I was trying to say - in my original argument is that I believe libido is libido... regardless of what you are going through... based on specific experiences I have had with women who I believe fit the criteria for having hormonal imbalances or past sexual lethargy.

After reading your further explanation of what was inclusive in this category - I then stated I did not believe I have ever met or at least engaged in sexual relations with a member of the opposite sex who had such issues to deal with... (psychologically or otherwise)

I then said my libido is libido argument would not apply to someone who was chemically altered in such a way (psychologically, etc.) that it wouldn't matter the touch -i.e., depression.

If that clears it up - then again, I'm the kind of guy if you ask me the time, I'll tell you how to build a watch.

[Sistersteel]

I can't do that multi-quote stuff... so I'll just go at it like this...Need a hand? lol


It isn't my style to boast -Hence a name like, The Big Sexy. ;)


I would rather say that I have an understanding of women. I know how to touch someone...Just another way to confess how good a lay you are, only with a more eloquent choice of words. lol


I believe libido is libido... regardless of what you are going through... based on specific experiences I have had with women who I believe fit the criteria for having hormonal imbalances or past sexual lethargy. "I believe" and " my specific experiences" being the operative words in this otherwise futile argument.


After reading your further explanation of what was inclusive in this category - I then stated I did not believe I have ever met or at least engaged in sexual relations with a member of the opposite sex who had such issues to deal with...
That would officially make you the only man on the face of this earth who has not encountered, at some point in his life, an emotionally driven woman.


If that clears it up - then again, I'm the kind of guy if you ask me the time, I'll tell you how to build a watch.We officially have something in common :)

[The Big Sexy]

GEEBUS SS... All the multi-quoting...

The name... The Big Sexy - was actually given to me while I was bouncing in Chicago... it stuck. It also didn't hurt that I am a huge fan of the WWE and at the time, Kevin Nash was my favorite wrestler. Although, I'm sure it does come across as cocky. Eh...

If the shoe fits... ;)

I will never admit my argument is futile. ;)

I never said I have not encountered an emotionally driven women... I just said I haven't encountered one with a libido issue I could not work around. Or, in the alternative, I have not encountered one (as you say) on that 'level'...

Dear Lord - I think hell just froze over. ;)

[Sistersteel]

GEEBUS SS... All the multi-quoting...
Multi quoting was the best thing invented for referencing the thoughts one wishes to comment on. You should try it sometime. Might come in handy in the pit.

jk :)


The name... The Big Sexy - was actually given to me while I was bouncing in Chicago... it stuck. It also didn't hurt that I am a huge fan of the WWE and at the time, Kevin Nash was my favorite wrestler. Although, I'm sure it does come across as cocky. Eh...

If the shoe fits... ;)What if you outgrow that shoe?



I will never admit my argument is futile. ;)Of course you wouldn't! You're The Big Sexy. :flowers:


I never said I have not encountered an emotionally driven women... I just said I haven't encountered one with a libido issue I could not work around. Or, in the alternative, I have not encountered one (as you say) on that 'level'... Again, my apologies for making such a presumption.


Dear Lord - I think hell just froze over. ;)
Nope. Not really. Actually I'm pretty warm back here. :)