Lost a good boy

[Hammerfit]

With a heavy heart I will go to the gym today in honor of our son who died yesterday from an apparent heart attack. We suspect diet pills could have something to do with it, but at this point it is speculation. He was a very strong 25 year old who has always been an athlete and heavy lifter.

I don't understand why God has done this but I hope to understand as time passes.

[KevinCouch]

With a heavy heart I will go to the gym today in honor of our son who died yesterday from an apparent heart attack. We suspect diet pills could have something to do with it, but at this point it is speculation. He was a very strong 25 year old who has always been an athlete and heavy lifter.

I don't understand why God has done this but I hope to understand as time passes.

Hammer! Man, I'm really sorry to hear this awful news! I'll be praying for you and your family to get thru this brother!
Kevin

[cook]

Hammer! Man, I'm really sorry to hear this awful news! I'll be praying for you and your family to get thru this brother!
Kevin
The same from me

[DUKE56]

I'm sorry to hear about your son. I know you are really shocked. My family will remember yours in our prayers.

[AnglicanBeachParty]

That's extremely sad.

I am so sorry for your loss.

[GirlyMuscle]

Wow! So sorry to hear of your loss. {{{hugs}}}}

[freebirdmac]

Oh my gosh!!! I am so sorry! I can't even imagine...and don't want to. My deepest sympathies.

[rcp1936]

25 years old

What a tragic event

So sorry --you must be devastated

[caribeman]

My Lord, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray God be with you and your family during this time.

[x100696]

My wife and I will b praying 4 you!

[Sam Poe]

Very Sorry to hear of this tragic event in your life brother you have my deepest sympathies.

[BigEJ]

I'm extremely sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

[Baldiewonkanobi]

Oh my God my friend. Your son. I weep for you and your family.

Bill

[Wh1teruss1an]

I'm so sorry Hammer.

[spritz0]

I send you my deepest condolences in this time of loss Brother- please make sure they do an autopsy to discover the truth. One of my friends died (he was Navy I was Airborne) and it was suspected he had taken something but in the end they didn't do an investigation.

[Hammerfit]

I send you my deepest condolences in this time of loss Brother- please make sure they do an autopsy to discover the truth. One of my friends died (he was Navy I was Airborne) and it was suspected he had taken something but in the end they didn't do an investigation.

They are doing autopsy but said it could take 6 weeks! I don't know how this is going to turn out, we are leaving the details up to his wife as it should be. I'm keeping my mouth shut until I find out more. He was a very fit and strong man, doesn't really add up.

[esplendido]

I have 2 sons, 31 and 26. I can't imagine losing one of them. This big man would be crushed beyond repair. Condolences, my friend. I can't fathom the pain.

[axioma]

Can't add anything to what has been said...tried to imagine our daughter and feel sick...as you must. Grieve in whatever manner you must, but grieve and know that we are all with you. God Bless

[joedemarco]

Wow, Hammer....I am so sorry for you and your family. My heart goes out to you. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. God Bless.

[Bona fide]

Very sorry for your loss man.

[GerryT]

So sorry, Hammer. Lost my wife and son in an auto accident several years ago. the pain is still present. So hard to comprehend, nothing worse than losing a child.

Sincere sympathy to you and the family. Get in touch any time if you want to talk.

[Down4whatever]

Can't imagine the pain.......I'm speechless. Thinking of you and your family.

[DanielL]

Damn man RIP

[~gymdiva~]

Rip :(

[Sandpig]

Sorry to hear about your son's death. May he rest in peace

[koruverde]

The pain must be searing...I'm so sorry...life snuffed out...just awful!!

[HeavyDutyGuy]

Wow. That is my worst fear. I am so sorry.

[bryantone]

Very sorry. God must have needed him.

[Getnbig]

I have tears in my eyes... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,

[D_T]

Sorry for your loss.

[J. Daniels]

So sorry for your lose. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Mac]

Mike, I am so sorry to read of your loss. I cannot imagine the pain.

[Sledge]

Wow, so sorry for your loss.

[Hammerfit]

We start our journey today to a tiny country town in FL called Ebro. Thats where Jake lived on a river where he hunted and fished at his leisure. It's only fitting that he be laid to rest in such a place.

This family has been torn to shreds over this loss, especially my wife, his mother. We are God fearing people and have really been struggling to find the meaning of taking such a vibrant and young soul.

I am the big tough guy in the family so I have to be strong for everyone, only on this forum will I admit that I'm not so tough when it comes to loosing a child. But I will hide it and be strong for my Lisa and her family.

Sorry to bug you guys with my emotions, had to get it off my back.

[Mac]

The biggest, baddest and strongest man in the world could not be tough at a time like this.

We are here for you Mike.

[GerryT]

Mike, you do not always have to be the "strong one". I learned that along the way. Grieve with Lisa, and let her know how devastating this is to you. By showing your grief and sharing it, you and Lisa will make each other stronger.

If you want, feel free to get in touch any time after the funeral. I helped run a support group in my area to deal with this. You are not alone. God bless.

[mrpickypants]

Dear Lord. Be with this man.
I'm so sorry.

[thesamewords]

Prayers going out for you and your fam bro.

[freebirdmac]

Mike, you do not always have to be the "strong one". I learned that along the way. Grieve with Lisa, and let her know how devastating this is to you. By showing your grief and sharing it, you and Lisa will make each other stronger.

If you want, feel free to get in touch any time after the funeral. I helped run a support group in my area to deal with this. You are not alone. God bless.

I agree. Be strong for Lisa when it's called for, but also allow her to see the depths of your despair. It will help both of you.

[Big Sky Guy]

Tough to hear. Takes a strong man to be there for his family AND to allow himself to experience the feelings.

My prayers for you and your family.

[Baldiewonkanobi]

Mike I hurt for you brother. Losing a child to me is unfathomable. It was my children I clinged to in my pain over losing Randee August 1st. I can tell you that this was the first time they ever saw me cry and tremble. Mike that somehow made me stronger and genuine in their eyes.

Consider contacting Gerry. Something magical about that man. He has been in your shoes with the sudden unexpected loss of both his wife and son.

Right now I too question God. I do not question Gods children. My children, grand children. Perhaps therein lies our answer.

Bill

[Hammerfit]

Just wanted to say thank you for all the kind words from all my friends here on the masters forum. It meant a lot to get the words of wisdom and encouragement that helped greatly pull me through and be the rock that I needed to be for my family.

Mike Horn put it best when he told me Friday, there is a unsung brotherhood of family members of bodybuilders that even if they don't know you personally know who you are and know what you are and are praying for you. What a powerful gesture, he def put out the word to our brotherhood and collectively had a group prayer for me and my family. I could feel the presence during the service and it kept Lisa and I strong.

For everyone here that supported me through our times of trouble our sincerest gratitude and warmest thoughts.

Your Brother

MC

[GerryT]

I've known Jan and Mike Horn about 10 years, and they are both super people. And their son Steel is one terrific young man.

You do have a lot of people praying during this difficult time. I lit a candle in church and pray daily for you and Lisa. Hang in there.