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Sistersteel
03-22-2009, 09:41 PM
1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?
Yes_____ No_____

2. Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or with people you would not normally choose?
Yes_____ No_____

3. Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines or other media?
Yes_____ No_____

4. Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?
Yes_____ No_____

5. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt
after a sexual encounter?
Yes_____ No_____

6. Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships?
Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?
Yes_____ No_____

7. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?
Yes_____ No_____

8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement
and relief?
Yes_____ No_____

9. Have you been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism exhibitionism, prostitution,
sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?
Yes_____ No_____

10. Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?
Yes_____ No_____

11. Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion or violence?
Yes_____ No_____

12. Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?
Yes_____ No_____


If you answered yes to more than one of these questions you might need to attend a Sex Addicts Anonymous Meeting.

HeavyDutyGuy
03-23-2009, 01:55 AM
What if you answered 9?

Ortski
03-23-2009, 12:46 PM
What if you answered 9?

Its a yes or no questionnaire...you cant just miss a question out.

I answered question 9!

sadly i answered no though!

xxxadrenaline
03-24-2009, 12:05 AM
9 of 12 "Yes" answers for me... Hmm... I used to use AFF as well (Adult Friend Finder) when I at the end of my last marriage and up until my current (no longer on it now). No one knew about it... But man did I get a lot of action from that site. I travel for work and had a girl in each town.. even a few couples.. Yep.. dirty dirty man.
I am off it now, however it is really hard. I have to force myself not to tap into that resource any longer...

HeavyDutyGuy
03-26-2009, 11:46 AM
Its a yes or no questionnaire...you cant just miss a question out.

I answered question 9!

sadly i answered no though!

Nooo, What if you answered yes to 9 questions...?

Wiry Pyruvity
03-26-2009, 11:49 AM
Its a yes or no questionnaire...you cant just miss a question out.

I answered question 9!

sadly i answered no though!
lol

exit2010
09-14-2009, 09:51 AM
1 or more, wow that is strict.

Bolan
09-14-2009, 10:11 AM
Hell, I dont need a survey to tell me im a sex addict......Im a male. ;)

PTB
09-17-2009, 01:06 PM
interesting to find this here on a site which has sections for pornagrapy, has a radio show "sex & muscle", which features porn stars - one of which is the host, and the owner of the website.

It's like setting up alcoholics anonymous in a bar.

I think the intentions are noble though, and I guess you have to go where the addicts may hang out to reach them - i.e., to be in the world but not of it. I think Jesus would come here, not for the sex, but to help people.

Small Muscles
09-25-2009, 04:53 PM
1) YES
2) Yes - Places
3) Yes - My Fiancee' always ask why do I make comments about women's chest, and what is my infatuation with them. When I see them on t.v., or porn or just walking down the street.
4) No - Fiancee' is pretty open minded (lucky me)
5) NO
6) NO
7) YES
8) Yes - Porn
9) NO
10) no
11) Depends on the situation - lol
12) YES

kdmnohio
09-25-2009, 05:02 PM
An alcoholic must admit they are an alcoholic right? A lot are in denial and refuse to admit they have a problem.......so in reference to THIS issue......I DENY DENY DENY having a problem, LOL!!! If the answer is "yes" to only 1 of them???? WoW!!

:no:

A sex addict meeting COULD be interesting though.....might be a nice place to meet some people and hang out with!! :hmn: