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DaveV
04-02-2009, 05:16 PM
Would you date a man (grown man) if he was like this:

- didn't have a job

- lived with his parents

- had a great body

- personality is very serious, with little to no sense of humor


Curious about this.

Suzy Brown
04-02-2009, 05:21 PM
Would you date a man (grown man) if he was like this:

- didn't have a job NO, unless he didn't work because was independantly wealthy... then its still a maybe. People should do some contributing.

- lived with his parents NO, unless they were elderly and dependant on him. Then it would be a good thing, shows compassion.

- had a great body I wouldn't date a guy ONLY for his body

- personality is very serious, with little to no sense of humor NEGATRON!! Humor is more important than money, home & bod.


Curious about this.
SEE my BOLD Answers.

GirlyMuscle
04-02-2009, 05:53 PM
Would you date a man (grown man) if he was like this:

- didn't have a job At one time I dated guys like this...not anymore.

- lived with his parents At one time I dated guys like this...not anymore.

- had a great body Not necessary.

- personality is very serious, with little to no sense of humor We probably wouldn't have clicked enough to make it to the first date.


Curious about this.You aren't describing yourself are you?

Tatyana
04-02-2009, 05:54 PM
You aren't describing yourself are you?

I think he might be.

Dave, stop being so hard on yourself.

DaveV
04-02-2009, 06:12 PM
You aren't describing yourself are you?

lol yeah

There's a difference with being hard on myself and being honest with myself (except for that great body part.... that's coming soon). It seems that if I don't make these changes (work somewhere, live on my own) that I will more than likely be by myself. And since I'm not attracted to hood rats that you always see dating jailbirds this makes the process of attraction even harder.

Angela123
04-02-2009, 06:16 PM
i find it hard to believe that you have no sense of humor.

do you realize how many men in their 20s still live with their parents. more than you think.

are you making the changes? you can only move out once you have an income. have you been job searching?

GirlyMuscle
04-02-2009, 06:16 PM
How old are you Dave?

I think it's probably best if you work on your life, for you. Not to get a woman. And when you make it something you can be proud of and you know who you are, the woman will come. I'm not saying you can't date and stuff. Just don't be all focused on a partner when you have stuff to acomplish for yourself first.

DaveV
04-02-2009, 07:17 PM
27 in 10 days. I get a disability pension so I have some money to live on but if I lived on my own I wouldn't be able to afford to bodybuild. So that's a choice I made. If I work a job on the side I can only have $200 extra no matter what I make. So I could be working 40 hour weeks for $200 because I need disability for my drug plan.

DaveV
04-02-2009, 07:25 PM
I think it's probably best if you work on your life, for you. Not to get a woman. And when you make it something you can be proud of and you know who you are, the woman will come. I'm not saying you can't date and stuff. Just don't be all focused on a partner when you have stuff to acomplish for yourself first.

Things I've wanted to do in life but have passed by now

- attend Notre Dame University (but with no highschool education, if I go to adult school that diploma will not be good enough to get into Notre Dame)

- recently I've thought of going to seminary school. But afraid that my tattoos that I have will hold me back in that. Too bad I found faith later in life.


I lack social skills because I never went to highschool for very long and I've isolated myself from society. I usually never talk, and if I do it's a short answer. I don't feel comfortable talking with people I don't know. I don't think I have much of a sense of humor. I don't like comedy, I don't like jokes, I don't find very many things humorous at all. The only tv show I watch regularly is The Cosby Show and that is for the family values it has rather than for the comedic value it's known for.

I pretty much quit life until just recently. And now it seems like it's too late to really do anything. 27, never had a gf. I'm sure that would turn a woman off too.

AndroGrrL
04-02-2009, 07:48 PM
Would you date a man (grown man) if he was like this:

- didn't have a job If he was recently laid off...I'd consider it...but someone who is just lazy/no drive...no.

- lived with his parents I live alone...not a problem...if he's youngish...if he's 29/30 and at home...pass.

- had a great body Dating a guy for his body alone...HUGE mistake...but it is an added bonus :)

- personality is very serious, with little to no sense of humor I'm...quite a smartass...so negative.


Curious about this.

Above in bold :)