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06-24-2013, 09:25 PM #1
need some help...
ok...i'm trying to figure out my fiancee...in terms of her diet. and more. she's a former amateur bb. now, works out like a beast. eats nothing but what she wants to eat....tilapia, chicken, veggies. healthy yeah. but not much fun. she's no longer competing.
in terms of us....we all make sacrifices and give a little bit when we meet that special person in our lives. i know i have. damn. but here's where i just can't get my head wrapped around......if i say, let's have a filet mignon for dinner....she'll take a teeny bite, and that's it. if SHE jokes and says, lets get ice cream from DQ and i do....she will lick the spoon...and not take another bite and leave me to eat it or not. healthy is healthy. and she swears she doesn't have an eating disorder (5'8 165 healthy lbs). so what gives? why can't she just let go?? even woman who are competing allow themselves a cheat meal or snack once a week or awhile?? it's driving me nuts, the fact that food is life....and she won't even try certain things...just a bite. and i'm left to enjoy by myself. that's like sex by myself. or working out by myself. anyone have any ideas? if someone is 'on' something, do they have to stick to a strict diet? i don't know much about that stuff.....
thanks.
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06-25-2013, 03:23 PM #2
I must have a cheat and my hubby makes sure of that!!! We both have a semi cheat meal on friday nights and a whole cheat meal saturday nights and it helps alot. When I'm not competin', I have more carbs n my diet. On the terms of her eatin', just flow with is, she may want to go back to competin', yet that is on her for now. Just hope one day, she want that steak and eat it all up. That's all I have for now.
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06-25-2013, 10:29 PM #3
thank you C of G......you make sense of it all
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06-26-2013, 08:52 AM #4
The fact that she "can't let go" as you state it, tells me she does have an eating problem. Sounds to me like she is so worried about the way she looks and not gaining a pound or swaying from her diet.....
Have you talked directly to her about this?
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06-27-2013, 07:23 PM #5
i think that she may be thinking of hitting the stage again, but does not know when. does this make since?
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06-27-2013, 07:29 PM #6
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06-27-2013, 07:30 PM #7
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06-27-2013, 07:48 PM #8
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