Please explain women to me

[njdiva]

27 messages on my home phone (forgot she had that) 12 emails probably adding up to 30 pages of text. I think she is really really sorry? Can it be that women THINK they still love their ex's, leave the current guy, go back with the ex on one date and remember why she left him in the first place, then want to current guy back? I'll give it till next weekend and ring her then. She needs to sweat some more this week. Shoot me, but I really like this one

ok, just catching up on this thread, and I have to agree with the masses, you are the rebound guy and unless she can prove she's over the ex, run like the wind kiddo! some women do not realize that they have a good thing, that they should treat the men they are with like kings and show them respect and love. she's jerking you around and you sooooo deserve better! if you like her, and you are willing to wait, knowing that you might be headed for a big fall, wait for her. but if you know that you are going to be crushed leave now!

[Formula94]

I'm seriously at a fucking loss here.

Two days ago I made a thread, asking how to show a girl a good time via massage. I also mentioned she did enjoy it thoroughly and I couldn't have received more compliments from her if I asked for them. All was well and all have been since early January. I know this since she initiated most of the contact, meetings and dates. Off course I've also done my part in making sure that she enjoy spending time with me, surprised her with day outs, gifts etc. When around my place, she never wanted to leave etc. In short, everything was balanced.

So this afternoon she rings me upset, telling me that she is still not over her ex and she is meeting up with him tonight to 'talk things over'. So immediately I thought, WTF, she hardly ever mentioned him, but tried to be as supportive as possible, biting my lip really really fucking hard and told her that she SHOULD meet him if it's going to help. (a.k.a, polishing the gun and aiming it at my foot). She said she appreciated my understanding and will be in touch before the meet and directly after and that this is just something she must do for her own peace of mind.

So I had a shitty afternoon, early evening came, no message, the time for the meeting came, nothing, no message. This is really grating on me now.
Just as I thought I'd allow myself to fall in love again, I get whacked on the balls very hard and reminded that this women creatures, truly are from Venus.

I've now started preparing myself for the worst. Feeling like shit, not in the mood to train, disinterested in work, can't be fucked to force food into myself six times a day, constantly wondering if I fucked up, etc etc.
Funny thing is, I know it's not my fault and not in my power to change it. Still, I'm feeling like shit right now. When will I learn

This just happened to me for the second time today. Luckily she had the guts to tell me now after only a couple weeks instead of drawing it out for 3 months like the last g/f.

[Ninja Loco]

Please explain women to me

Simple. They go for looks and or a big cock. If you dont have either, you're fucked.

They will deny this till they are blue in the face. Believe it, and you're fucked.

Will I ever learn?

Not unless you learn what I said. Try to figure anything else out about them and..... you're fucked.


Simple.

[baby gorilla]

I'm seriously at a fucking loss here.

Two days ago I made a thread, asking how to show a girl a good time via massage. I also mentioned she did enjoy it thoroughly and I couldn't have received more compliments from her if I asked for them. All was well and all have been since early January. I know this since she initiated most of the contact, meetings and dates. Off course I've also done my part in making sure that she enjoy spending time with me, surprised her with day outs, gifts etc. When around my place, she never wanted to leave etc. In short, everything was balanced.

So this afternoon she rings me upset, telling me that she is still not over her ex and she is meeting up with him tonight to 'talk things over'. So immediately I thought, WTF, she hardly ever mentioned him, but tried to be as supportive as possible, biting my lip really really fucking hard and told her that she SHOULD meet him if it's going to help. (a.k.a, polishing the gun and aiming it at my foot). She said she appreciated my understanding and will be in touch before the meet and directly after and that this is just something she must do for her own peace of mind.

So I had a shitty afternoon, early evening came, no message, the time for the meeting came, nothing, no message. This is really grating on me now.
Just as I thought I'd allow myself to fall in love again, I get whacked on the balls very hard and reminded that this women creatures, truly are from Venus.

I've now started preparing myself for the worst. Feeling like shit, not in the mood to train, disinterested in work, can't be fucked to force food into myself six times a day, constantly wondering if I fucked up, etc etc.
Funny thing is, I know it's not my fault and not in my power to change it. Still, I'm feeling like shit right now. When will I learn

Have you banged this broad yet? How long you been "seeing" her?

If you're busy taking this chick out, giving her massages, spending time and she hasn't banged you AND she's talking to you about going to go see her old boyfriend....

YOU'RE IN THE FRIEND ZONE!! You her fucken BFF!! You're fucked, son!

[baby gorilla]

I sent her a text/sms saying that what she did was in real bad taste, and that I can understand that everyone makes mistakes. However, I mentioned that she is clearly not over her ex and that she should give me a call when she's certain that she is. Also switched my phone off and it's staying off now until Monday.

I feel I've done the right thing.

Oh my god!!

Dude, go shave your pussy and put on a pretty dress. You're talking like a fucken teenaged girl.