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03-20-2010, 12:24 PM #16
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03-20-2010, 12:32 PM #17
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03-20-2010, 12:33 PM #18
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03-20-2010, 12:51 PM #20
So the rule of thumb is, don't talk to people on Myspace unless you are looking to hookup?
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03-20-2010, 12:51 PM #21
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03-20-2010, 01:10 PM #22
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03-20-2010, 01:12 PM #23
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03-20-2010, 02:20 PM #24
Facebook just surpassed Google as #1 for most site visitor hits in the USA. What the heck is MySpace? Just joking, it just seems to have been left in the dust of Facebook...
From one man's perspective, I'd have to agreee with barbellbarbie:
You can't blame a guy for his optimism.
There ARE members of the male gender who are more realistic in what they estimate a woman's behavior towards them means. Further, some women are genuinely pleasant and polite, whereas others come off near the opposite. The teller at my bank last night would be a prime example: cute, pleasant and struck up a small conversation while she processed my withdrawal. At no time did I get the impression that she wanted to get in my pants, she was a nice person and we ended the interaction with 'have a nice day'.
1fitchic -- your behavior is more than welcome by all. Don't let the attraction of weirdos, etc. to you deter you, because I'm sure they write the same thing to the mean girls anyway, just looking to see where they get something in return.
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03-20-2010, 05:33 PM #25
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Oh yeah I get alot of guys who will email me and compliment me etc.(I thought you meant real life interaction) I can tell if it is someone just being nice or if its more. It may be misleading if you constantly interact with them. You have to remember guys online have an obession with fit woman so you have to use your best judgement on how you interact with them.I wouldnt tell someone they are so nice or sweet though because these guys do it to so many woman. A simple thank you would work if they are worth responding too(some send emails hitting on me even though they see Im married , I dont respond to them)They dont need your personal info, they can contact you on myspace. You do need to be careful with these guys. I have made guy friends on myspace but you can tell the difference from the interaction if there is an actual friend connection versus someone saying wow I like your muscles or body...
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03-20-2010, 05:35 PM #26
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03-21-2010, 12:01 AM #27
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So do I. Except in my case things like I outlined happen. Everything from them rolling their eyes at me, to pretending they dont see me, to simply not even acknowledging me with the common courtesy of looking me in the eye as they ring me out at the register or whatever. And all from a smile like Ive been told to do a million times. Whats your point here? You're comparing guys who you exchange PERSONAL EMAILS with off of places like myspace....guys whom you have no idea who they are or could be simply because you "thought" you'd be nice to by accepting their friend request, to a regular face to face person who is being personable?? You're here complaining about guys whom you dont know that send you pics and hit on you ONLINE because you accepted them ONLINE......
Am I missing something here? Or are you just incredibly obtuse in the year 2010? Because in this day and age this is most certainly not a case "being nice and giving someone the benefit of the doubt". Here I thought you were complaining about us guys who are simply trying to be gentlemen in the face of ridicule that you women seem to be able to do without flinching. Try walking in our shoes sometime and see how you like that.
Every guy you speak to wants to hit on you. Boo fucking hoo.
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03-21-2010, 01:15 AM #28
Thats awesome!
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Be happy it's not the other way and they are not hitting on you...you would feel much worse.
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03-21-2010, 01:29 AM #29
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03-21-2010, 08:24 AM #30
Being hit on is one thing, telling me you want to F--- me because you are so big and you will rock my world, etc.... I'm sorry but that is not how you show interest in someone. I am pretty sure as a guy you would love it if a girl told that to you but I find that to be rude.
I do understand how you feel, I live in a small town and when I go shopping I hear all the rude comments and rolling of the eyes from the other women when they see me, especially in the summer, granted I do get the occasional women that says she loves the physique but get more rolling of the eyes.
So if that is how you hit on women by saying nasty remarks you deserve what they do to you because all I tell these guys are polite remarks and I get back I can rock your world. I think that is uncalled for.
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