Boyfriend Problem

**symphonyofdreams** · 05-30-2011, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by chixlegs

First post here, it's not bodybuilding related but BF related. I've been dating this guy for 6 months, super cute, good guy but he has a HUGE premature ejaculation issue.

He literally cums in his pants when we start to get hot and heavy. I've tried everything, nothing seems to help. A girlfriend of mine told me to dump him, which I could do, but I kinda don't want to. So another girlfriend of mine said to try humiliating him about it.

I know it sounds cruel, but there is a part of me that thinks if I video tape this happening and then threaten to expose him it might scare him enough to make him try harder to stop. Sounds mean, but I don't care at this point. Any thoughts? Trust me, I've tried EVERYTHING else.

That would be extremely fucked up of you. put yourself in his shoes, and think if someone video taped and exposed some thing private of you. Even if it did fix the problem which it would never any legit guy would dumb you in a second doing that. SO basically if it's a big issue dumb him

**sassy69** · 05-30-2011, 04:14 PM

I don't think humiliation is going to get the results you think it will - I doubt any guy would choose to 'perform' like this so I doubt he's got much control over it. You should suggest that he explore this issue w/ his doctor, or do a little research to see what sort of options there are. Making it "his fault" isn't going to help. Otherwise, you need to move on.

**cmeis90** · 05-30-2011, 04:21 PM

Definitely DO NOT try to humiliate, criticize, or otherwise intentionally try and make the poor guy feel bad. He already does. If you want to leave him, fine, but otherwise try to be understanding and work with him to get whatever kind of help is out there for this sort of thing. He doesn't want to be like that and is definitely plenty embarrassed and frustrated already.

**Dadup** · 05-30-2011, 05:08 PM

Originally Posted by cmeis90

Definitely DO NOT try to humiliate, criticize, or otherwise intentionally try and make the poor guy feel bad. He already does. If you want to leave him, fine, but otherwise try to be understanding and work with him to get whatever kind of help is out there for this sort of thing. He doesn't want to be like that and is definitely plenty embarrassed and frustrated already.

THIS... idk what humiliating him would accomplish at all, besides make you look bad...just address the issue with him, and see what can be done medically

**The Big Sexy** · 05-30-2011, 05:26 PM

Here is what I would do.

This sounds like a mental thing - so, he's probably getting excited because you are super hot and get his juices flowing or maybe you are really fat and he is a chubby chaser... either way, it doesn't matter - you do it for him! So you need to get his mind off the fact he is hooking up with a hot woman.

Here is the formula for success.

First, blindfold him and gag him. Gagging isn't necessary but it might help with his screaming in a few minutes. Next, put nipple clamps - tight ones - on his nipples. Also, put some clamps all up and down the side of his body, probably his ears, etc. Something to give him some pain outside of where you are going to get his dick hard in a moment.

Now, get his dick hard - you may have to slap a clamp on his balls, maybe pinch his inner thighs too.

The notion here is that he will be so distracted by the pain he is getting - he won't be able to really focus on the fact you are riding his penis or that he is getting any pleasure what-so-ever from the intercourse.

Now, normal guys can merely pinch the outside of their leg to distract themselves from cumming early. But, this guy sounds like he needs a little more - so, I embellished for you.

Trust me, this will work.

**The Big Sexy** · 05-30-2011, 05:27 PM

Oh yeah, you have to tie him up too... ha-durr... forgot that one.

**pillowtalk** · 05-30-2011, 06:13 PM

That is awful that you would even consider humiliating him. I would just get him to a doctor if you really like him-he obviously really likes you

I am sure there is something that can be done medically speaking. How old is he?

**Jodie** · 05-30-2011, 06:53 PM

I smell a troll.

**asdf** · 05-30-2011, 08:22 PM

Deca + cialis = fuckin champ

**scottt** · 05-30-2011, 10:37 PM

Originally Posted by Jodie

I smell a troll.

I was thinking the same thing earlier but why about this?

**Jodie** · 05-30-2011, 10:38 PM

Originally Posted by scottt

I was thinking the same thing earlier but why about this?

who knows.

**pillowtalk** · 05-30-2011, 10:41 PM

^^^J, I was actually thinking the same thing, the minute I read it. I don't know why I even bothered with a response.

**Sledge** · 05-30-2011, 11:22 PM

Depends on his recovery time and how he goes in round 2+. If round 2+ are good and it's only round one that causes him to blow on entry you could just take it as a huge compliment.