Boobs and the big wigs

**katertot** · 02-14-2012, 07:03 PM

I guess paying out the ass for school last year had its perks- Uncle Sam was good to me. I had already planned on getting a boob job later in the year but decided to move it up a few months given my tax refund.

I already have a doctor selected and am ironing out the final details. One question still looms overhead: what the hell do I tell my coworkers? I work for a big company but am not someone who gets lost in the crowds as I play a key role in operations. I am often in meetings and around higher ups who are very familiar with me. I have been with the company for almost 7 years so it is no secret that I am not blessed in the tit department (anymore- thanks, dieting...). SO I am a little nervous about taking off on a Tuesday night and coming back Monday with a new rack. Especially since I often have to present in meetings.

I know there are quite a few of you that have had this done so I am hoping you can share your experience with handling this! I may be over thinking it, but it's something that definitely concerns me. It won't deter me, but it may have me purchasing huge misshapen suits in the near future to camouflage my decolletage.

**78up** · 02-14-2012, 08:08 PM

Before size? Expected after size? You're not going for freaky boob size are you?

i have worked with a few gals who got boob jobs done and there wasn't that much attention to them.

**juiceinator3000** · 02-14-2012, 08:30 PM

From a mans perspective.. I had a coworker get them done. I didn't even notice for about a week. Then I asked her (we were close) in private and she told me that yes she had had them done. To me it's all about how you dress yourself. I couldn't tell because our shirts were not low cut at all. Had there been serious cleavage, yea maybe people would have noticed more.

**katertot** · 02-14-2012, 08:32 PM

Well that's good to hear, I worry more about the men than the chicks. I have some pretty cool female coworkers.

Not going freaky big, I'm only 5'4" so I don't want to tip over. Used to be a c, so full c is ideal.

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**juiceinator3000** · 02-14-2012, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by katertot

Well that's good to hear, I worry more about the men than the chicks. I have some pretty cool female coworkers.

Not going freaky big, I'm only 5'4" so I don't want to tip over. Used to be a c, so full c is ideal.

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C is the best size in my eyes. Especially when getting them done, not so outrageous that everyone will instantly know. Although it may be obvious to some. It's debatable whether youre better off letting the cat out the bag first (or tetas out the bra

) but I think a c shouldn't be too distracting that people won't be able to look away. But new boobs+smokin hot girl=attention.

**BC123Jm** · 02-14-2012, 09:16 PM

i will be anxiously awaiting the finished product. maybe i should start a new contest. Mammaries of March

**juiceinator3000** · 02-14-2012, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by BC123Jm

i will be anxiously awaiting the finished product. maybe i should start a new contest. Mammaries of March

Bingo. Winning.

**The Prodigy** · 02-14-2012, 10:59 PM

When I got mine done and went back to work I said nothing. Since people don't feel comfortable "asking" about them no one said anything and as time passed people forgot about it!

**sassy69** · 02-15-2012, 01:42 AM

If its still winter, start wearing big baggy stuff ahead of time so it looks like just seaonally appropriate work attire. When you take a week off, you've already set the norm for what you wear. Then come back and continue wearing the same type of stuff and just act normal

As Gail said, people usually aren't tacky enough to make a big deal about it, and if you're sort of going back to a size you already were, its sort of less of a change. By the time spring comes, all you're doing is going from the big baggy stuff, to the nice summer clothes and they just look better. If someone asks you who you aren't comfortable sharing this sort of personal thing with, you can just say you finally spent the money on a better bra

Or get your hair done differently, so when someone says something like "Something about you looks different...", you can say "New hairdo!" LOL! Deflect & distract!

**katertot** · 02-15-2012, 06:39 AM

Thank you ladies! I guess a freezing office has its plus side; bundling up prior to and for some time after is definitely an option. As far as people not questioning I hope that will be the case. I don't want to have to put any teeth out. I mean, I don't want to have to answer that question.

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**78up** · 02-15-2012, 06:57 AM

If anyone asks, tell them you're bulking and it goes straight to your boobs.

**KrisLynn** · 02-15-2012, 11:21 AM

Hey chica

I had to chim in... being as I work in an environment similair to yours... accept.. Im the only gal of 75 men!!!! So It got noticed... and you will be asked if you had anything done... (shaking head) DUH ...My response was always does it matter if I did or didnt?? srsly you dont even need to ask that stupid Q... its obvious!

Now expect your size to be super perky and full for atleast a few months, mine settled at about 5... they were perfect then, since dieting they have shrunk... (yep its possible) I too went the whole "I want a nice rack that not the 1st thing you notice

" Im 5-3ish and am a 34 C... some days they are very noticable.. others not so much. Anywho, dont worry about the first few weeks, let the looks come, be descrete with your wardrobe if you feel better, since its chilly out now, this would be a perfect time of yr to get them... huh... as a matter a fact I got mine in Feb a few yrs back.. perfect time to cover the goods!! Anywho... once its certainly no secret to your coworkers, show those beauties off in a fancy fitted biz shirt! You will feel amazing!!

PS I think u look Fab now.. but boobies are what you want.. GO FOR IT GIRL!!!
Mine came bc I was a lard ass once that dropped my D's and they really needed come constructing!! I FREAKIN LOVE THEM!!!

ENJOY ur KNOCKERS!!! ...... wait!!!!!! hold up... u have an amazing ass and now will have amazing tits to match... ugh I Hate you!

**Cristina Liberatore** · 02-15-2012, 12:54 PM

Totally agree with a lot of the posts. When I got mine done, I just kept them "low key" for quite a while with my work clothes. I didn't wear any padded bras and even sometimes wore my sports bra just to be sure they didn't stick out too much to my boss/co-workers right away. Like the one post said, if you're doing it in the winter and/or your office is cold...you should be golden!

If you worked at a place where tank-tops were the uniform, I'd say you're outta luck LOL.

Best of luck to ya! You'll love em!

**katertot** · 02-15-2012, 03:28 PM

KrisLynn, Cristina, you ladies are awesome. Thanks for sharing! (How AA meeting does that sound?) But seriously, thanks. My one girlfriend who has them and still refuses to admit it just played dumb when I asked her.

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**tammyp** · 02-16-2012, 05:34 AM

alot of my clients knew, others didnt notice. i got mine in nov so winter clothes kept them under wraps. i think we assume they are so obvious, bc they are to us, but most people are not that observant.

**katertot** · 02-16-2012, 10:57 AM

Good point Tammy. Another question for you ladies...if you had this done after you started competing, did you lose much size/strength having to take time off lifting to recover? It kills me to think I have to take so much time off after working so hard to get to where I am now. It will be worth it in the end, but it still sucks! If you didn't lose much, how did you prevent it? I like my muscles!

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**KrisLynn** · 02-16-2012, 11:35 AM

I would say my training "kinda" was on hold... but never to the whole bod. I went back like a week later, did my norm, just made certain those girls were secured nice and tight. Honestly you wont feel like doing anything for fear the will bust open.. lol.. they wont. You will naturally baby them and a few months later you will notice you can do more. I gotta say, once you have them in, it wont be as important to train chest as it has been... your new tits basically just magically did that... gave you a solid strong rack.... the look you want.

Its been 3yrs now and I dont even know i have them when I bench or work em.... although in the months that followed my surgery it was really odd to see them pop out... to the outsides only when I did certain exercises... very odd and funny too!!

U wont regret it... and u wont be out forever!! Ur bod might like you chillen out on it... I know u go crazy with it daily!

**sassy69** · 02-16-2012, 12:15 PM

I started prepping for my first show 3 months after I got mine. Mine were "unders" so the biggest issue was dealing w/ the healing of that - random nerve ticks and muscle spasms when my pecs contracted, as well as letting the implant pockets themselves heal - scar tissue, etc. Outside of that, not a big deal.

As far as "losing" things - assuming you've spent more than a couple months in the gym already, you're developing a certain amount of muscle memory every time you step into the gym. If you're judicious about your diet & training, the whole point is to get your body optimized to where it is adjusting to support the changes you're making. Thus short term changes are usually easily accommodated.

**katertot** · 02-19-2012, 11:44 AM

^this makes me feel a lot better Sassy, thank you. I guess seeing as so many women in this sport have had it done, and don't appear to be set back by it, I shouldn't worry so much.

So end of March/beginning of April its a go!

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**sassy69** · 02-19-2012, 02:50 PM

Originally Posted by katertot

^this makes me feel a lot better Sassy, thank you. I guess seeing as so many women in this sport have had it done, and don't appear to be set back by it, I shouldn't worry so much.

So end of March/beginning of April its a go!

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I was thinking about this last nite as well - you need to let your body heal. I know we all freak out about time off from the gym from surgery or getting the flu or whatever. The thing is, your body is going to be busy expending energy healing itself so IMO if you try to keep lifting to avoid 'loss' in your muscle development, you may actually be overtaxing your body while it is busy dealing w/ the reason you're out of the gym in the first place. Its a balance- its sort of like best use of limited resources. Your body has a certain amount of energy it can allocate to all the demands on it. You trying to make up for a perceived "down time" can just be too much,. It all comes out in the wash IMO. The point is to let your body do what it does best. Don't overfeed it or over use it. I always remind myself that overtraining is the same as under-recovery. From both sides, they will still result in the same thing - your body trying to keep up w/ the demands, hitting a wall, and ultimately telling you to go fuck yourself because the problem is about to get compounded by metabolic shutdown, injury, or any of a plethora of other exhaustion-related issues.

So, let yourself heal first. Your body will be well-rested and ready to hit hard again!

**natenator** · 02-19-2012, 04:13 PM

If a dude askes reply: did you finally get that penis enlargement?

If a woman askes: would you like me to setup a consultation for you?

That'll shut them up and realize how inappropriate their comments are

**BeccaStaggs** · 02-19-2012, 06:49 PM

Most the ppl I work with didn't notice at all. I've since told few and they were like "ooh yeah, how did I not notice?!" However, I have always been one to wear padded stuff, add a cup bras, etc.

now I just don't have to. I went from a small b to a small d, but when I diet down now I'm a c. I wear very modest clothes at work, butt outside of work the twins are more obvious.

nothing a cardigan at the office can't hide.

Hooray for tax refunds!!

**sassy69** · 02-20-2012, 01:22 AM

Originally Posted by natenator

If a dude askes reply: did you finally get that penis enlargement?

If a woman askes: would you like me to setup a consultation for you?

That'll shut them up and realize how inappropriate their comments are

If anyone at your office has any sense of corporate protocol, they will realize they are standing on the edge of a sexual harrassment suit and just not go there.