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04-19-2009, 09:16 AM #16
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04-19-2009, 10:44 AM #17
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I don't find Brad Pitt attractive at all. Pass.
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04-19-2009, 10:52 AM #18
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I don't think I'm bi. I don't want to have sex with a woman but I do get turned on by them. Isn't that weird? I think women's bodies are beautiful and I do get sexually aroused but it stops at wanting to actually DO anything with them. Here's another oddity...when I watch porn I watch the women. I barely notice the guy other than to watch his phallus do whatever it is it's doing to the woman.
I agree with Sassy on the age thing. In my 20s, all I thought about while having sex was...am I doing it right, do I look fat, what is he thinking. In my 30s I was a little more adventurous but I was still worried about how I look, blah blah blah. Now that I'm in my 40s I'm much more secure about myself. I have enough self confidence at this point, that if I feel the guy is thinking stuff like that I wouldn't be there. Of course, Sledge helped me a lot in seeing myself without so much self criticism.You guys with the huge sponsor ads in your signatures make reading the forums annoying.
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04-19-2009, 10:55 AM #19
Yeah, I admit it when I see a good looking guy, great physique... I think one thing that makes a man attractive is his confidence more than anything (not cockiness) - belief in himself - I have no issue admitting when a guy is "hot" - doesn't mean I want to engage in sexual escapades with him, however. then again, I'm probably one of the most "comfortable in his own skin" people I know.
As for women bbers and all being (90%?) bisexual - I think it's a stereotype. I've run into many figure and bbers who were into other women - or talked about other women all the time - this, that, the other... but I've also run into many who are "ewwwww... that's gross"
I think a few of the ladies here nailed it - getting more comfortable, increased sex drive, etc...
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04-19-2009, 10:57 AM #20
I have to agree with Sledge. Not on the Brad Pitt thing but I have no clue what makes a man attractive. I think that confidence is an incredible aphrodisiac. I have seen men and women who were not the most physically attractive person but the way they carry themselves and you see they ooze confidence in their interaction with other people. Being comfortable in your own skin and sure of who you are and what you want is incredibly attractive.
Unless there's a bench press contest I joined and didn't know about it doesn't matter how much I bench.
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04-19-2009, 11:01 AM #21
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Confidence, not cockiness, is the biggest turn on for me. Strength is a big turn on..not just muscle strength but mental. If you don't have confidence, none of the rest matters.
OK...sorry....back on topic...You guys with the huge sponsor ads in your signatures make reading the forums annoying.
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04-19-2009, 11:03 AM #22
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04-19-2009, 11:05 AM #23
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Lee Priest says 90% of women bodybuilders are bisexual.
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04-19-2009, 11:11 AM #24
Stupid comment by a bloke about as sharp as a bowling ball.
I'd say a lot of FBB's are Bi curious. I lot have a heightened body image and sexual expression. But to say 90% are Bi is just dumb. Maybe 90% of the women he slept with changed teams after.
Maybe we should have a poll with just the FBB on the site entering an answer. there are over 25 so it should be a relevant poll.
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04-19-2009, 11:21 AM #25
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04-19-2009, 11:22 AM #26
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04-19-2009, 11:23 AM #27Unless there's a bench press contest I joined and didn't know about it doesn't matter how much I bench.
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04-19-2009, 12:30 PM #28
First I think you need to sit back and define the term "bisexual"....which, if you can do so in black and white then I applaud you, because it seems "bisexual" is pretty gray term. It also seems to have different meanings dependant on whether its being applied to men or to women.
So I looked up the term out of curiosity, to see how a dictionary defines it, and ironically the first definition reads: a. Having both male and female reproductive organs; hermaphroditic.
(now I don't think when Lee Priest stated most fbbers are bisexual this is what he meant, so I went to definition #2)
b. Of, relating to, or having a sexual orientation to persons of either sex
If we apply this term to women, we use the term bisexual. However if we apply this term to men, we simply call them "gay". I know TONS of people who would categorize a man who likes both men AND women as gay rather then bisexual. Women seem to get more leniancy in this area- I mean we also have the term bi-curious for example. Talk about a gray area. I googled THAT term and came up with PARAGRAPH definitions... see for yourself: http://www.experiencefestival.com/a/...ous/id/1931664.
So that leads me back to Lee saying fbbers are bisexual. I'd totally disagree for several reasons.
1) Most fbbers (to my knowledge) do not have both male and female organs so we can rule out number 1
2) Using the second definition for bisexual leaves with a big fat gray area because there are many ways you can "relate to, or have orientaton to persons of the opposite sex"
Like girlymuscle said she can "relate" to other women in the sense that she finds them attractive and arousing but when it comes to actually being physical with another woman she draws the line. Does that make her bisexual? She's relating to another woman, she's finding things attractive in other women- but would she actually sleep with or have a relationship with another woman? What constitutes bisexual?
I think that with lifting, and with taking your body to the height of its potential comes a sense of pride and self satisfaction that leads to confidence. Most women I know who lift and compete are confident, both with themselves and around others. I think a HUGE reason that people are uncomfortable with sex or sexuality relates back to a lack of self confidence. If you take insecurity out of th epicture you have a well built, extremly sexy person who has worked hard for her physique and is open to sharing it. I don't think that means bisexual necessarily.
I'm super comfortable with my body and I don't feel intimitatd or threatened by other beautiful women. I've done nude work. I've done a girl girl shoot. But I dont consider myself bisexual nor would I ever. I enjoy other women, I enjoy complimenting and respecting the hard work other athletes put into their own bodies and I'm comfortable telling another woman she looks good. But would I ever be with or have a relationship with a woman in my personal life-no. I love men haha.
I just think a blanket statement like 'fbbers are bisexual' is premature and ill thought out. Sexuality in itself is a very gray area and there are many areas of definition. I've never attempted to peg my own sexuality nor the sexuality of others. I think part of the reason there are so many damn terms related to a persons sexuality is because we have tried to hard to nail down "this is this, and that is that" when it comes to a persons sexual orientation of prefences and the bottom line is we end up with 50 different terms and still no black and white.
Some things arent meant to be black and white. I think sexuality is one of them.
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04-19-2009, 12:37 PM #29
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04-19-2009, 12:39 PM #30
Props to him.
I just personally think its too hard to define. I've been out at a bar and said that a woman was hot and had my gf go 'what are you lezzie or something' and I've said a woman is attractive online and had people agree and graze over it as though it was nothing.....
it just depends. We all define sexuality in our own terms, I don't think that there is a univesal way to define it. I think it pertains to the individual and how they seem themselves.
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